I am completely frustrated right now. Not with wedding planning, but FI's personal finance issues. I've known about his carefree attitude from the get go. Then once we started living together I found out about how he forgets to pay bills on time and has overdrafted his bank account several times. I expressed my feelings to him about how that is completely unexceptable and that I could not marry someone who did not watch after their finances. I am very particular about paying bills on time and making sure there is plenty of money in the bank. Well, FI has been doing real good about it for I would say the past year. Well, right now he is currently not working, waiting to start something new. Which is fine and all, but he is falling back to the old habit of not watching his bank account. I have no problems supporting us right now and all, but I (being the financially responsible person in the relationship) do not tolerate late fees or overdraft fees. It makes me soooo mad. I know my money is eventually our money, but I won't tolerate him being irresponsible. Just had to get that off my chest.
Is there anything about your FI/husband personality or bad habits that completely frustrates you?
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